LOVER/GIRLFRIEND VS GF EXPERIENCE VS PORN STAR EXPERIENCE

The idea of varied types of sexual experience has always intrigued me since I have been involved in the world of sex for a good part of my life.  As a woman who has had long term intense lover relationships I find myself in a place to educate boyfriends hobbyists, sugar daddy’s, husbands and lovers of some of the differences women experience and do not always convey.

A lover, long term relationship, wife, and girlfriend all have the qualities of extensive giving, multi-tasking, open-heart, realness, convenience, availability, general willingness and reciprocated passion and desire for you. But this may not be why you found her special in the first place.  The problem occurs when the wild sex and intense experiences of early dating or escort dates are expected to last into the years spent with each other on a regular and frequent basis.

I have figured out for myself that the singular event, time frame, and equal compensation and gratitude shown for all energy and service provided in an escort encounter keeps this union very clean, clear and vibrant.  Trying to convert an escort into a lover and expecting the same service when all the other factors change is unrealistic and problematic.

I went further into this investigation and realized that a Girlfriend experience has come to mean certain closeness as uncovered oral, covered intercourse and kissing, great for many but for some it can be a misnomer since a very exciting Girlfriend experience could most certainly be had even when safety and protection is a priority and something else signifies an experience with a girlfriend.

Another element has come into play and that is the influence of Porn on our society, giving rise to – Porn Star Experiences. I have noticed that in my experience, such activities have increasingly become expected activities of escorts, girlfriends, wives, or long term lovers that may have been or are presently escorts.  I need to repeat that swallowing, rimming, water sports, bdsm and anal sex (in the realm of kink for me) are not every day activities and should not be treated as such to a professional or your intimate partner.  These are highly specialized services and are not every woman’s offering.  For some it will be never, and that should be respected.

Some ideas highlighted here are the division of give and take, sharing, equal service, pleasure and acceptance. In the professional world compensation for time and service is financial. For a  woman in a marriage or long relationship, equal sharing is much more physical and intimate.  Conversation, the build-up (planning, romance, sweet gestures, foreplay, massage, generosity), learning how to sensually romanticize each other without expectation, and giving and receiving in a balanced way are the keys to a lasting sustainable relationship.

Providers who education about advanced enlightenment using sexuality such as through Tantra can have a truly remarkable effect on couples, or individuals who want to learn and grow in sexual depth, guiding them on a path to greater closeness, healing and powerful transformation through sex.  The techniques can be embraced for life.

So remember, husbands, boyfriends and lovers, in your regular days with your partner they must be treated as equals and not expected to be On, servicing at any time,

And remember clients, a relationship of a marriage, boyfriend/girlfriend and lover is not what you have come to see an escort for. There will be awesome experiences, but they will have a time-frame and a very clear set of equal give and take outlined.  Please respect this.

Enjoy, respect, play, seduce, explore and most of all Love!

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